Most parents know to keep an eye out for eating disorders like bulimia and anorexia, but few have heard of another common eating disorder — binge eating. People with the disorder have frequent episodes of eating abnormally large amounts of food. They feel unable to control what and how much they are eating. The disorder is often accompanied by eating very quickly, eating until uncomfortably full, and feelings of guilt, disgust, and embarrassment over how much they have eaten.

The disorder has some real risks and it is not something your child will just grow out of. Most adults with the disorder began having problems during childhood or adolescence. People with the disorder are generally overweight and have a higher risk for problems like diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, gallbladder disease, heart disease, cancer, depression, and anxiety.

It can often be hard to tell if your child is suffering from binge eating disorder because children are notorious for eating a lot, especially when going through growth spurts or when involved in sports. Children and teens who struggle with the disorder often feel guilty or embarrassed and will frequently binge in secret, making it even harder for parents to tell how much they are eating.

So how do you distinguish a healthy appetite from a problem with binge eating?

  • Do you notice large amounts of food missing from the kitchen?
  • Does your child eat a lot of food quickly?
  • Does your child eat in response to emotional stress?
  • Does your child seem embarrassed by how much he or she eats?
  • Do you find hidden food containers in your child’s room?
  • Are your child’s eating patters irregular? Does your child skip meals and then eat at unusual times like late at night?
  • Does your child show signs of depression, anxiety, guilt or shame?
  • Is your child obese, overweight or experiencing unexplained weight gain?

If you suspect your child or teen might be binge eating, talk to your child’s pediatrician. The pediatrician will look at your child’s medical history, family history, eating patterns, and any emotional issues. If your child does have binge eating disorder, the pediatrician will help you coordinate treatment, which usually involves therapy and sometimes medication or a weight loss plan.

It’s important to be sensitive to your child. Many children and adolescents are very embarrassed by their binge eating and won’t be ready to open up right away. Playing off their guilt and embarrassment will also not help them develop a healthy relationship with food. Be sure to encourage healthy eating habits by being a good role model and not using food as a reward.

The road to recovery is a long and hard one; it is a good idea to get all the help you need. Many parents find it helpful to join a support group or to read up on the disorder. Although it won’t be easy, helping your child avoid a lifetime struggle with food is well worth it.


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Binge Eating Disorder (Kids Health)


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